Recognizing the contempt

Recognizing the contempt

Always consider what you despise, and, and you will find that it is always a happiness that does not have it, a freedom that does not grant you, courage, skill, strength, of the benefits that you are missing, and the lack of which will console them with contempt.

The contempt emotion is expressed predominantly in social situations when you want to express disapproval of transgressive behavior of moral norms and social conventions, aggressive and violent behavior, betrayal of trust ...; such attitudes evoke a moral evaluation of the other. 

It is, therefore, of social emotion that is triggered when its purpose is threatened.

L ' object of this emotion is human behavior in some expressions that evoke moral evaluation that leads to disapproval; 
The recipient is the person who manifests considered negative behaviors, attitudes of superiority or he betrays the trust. When that happens, you believe compromises, with regard to the community, the social purposes (to keep the rules of society), moral (religion), legal, or to one particular group of belonging, the specific aims of the group and prepare face an opponent to be hazardous. The person or group, allegedly responsible for such behavior is recognized for that despicable behavior and expressing contempt, we discourage any repetition of that conduct. Its purpose is to preserve the moral norms, laws and social conventions of society, or group it belongs to, by those who can impair performance; contempt is an emotion necessary for their defense within the community or a group.

How to locate it on the face of our interlocutor?
It 'easy to confuse the disdain with a smile, this is the most common mistake that commits those unfamiliar with the language of the body in general. 
Contempt is different emotion disgust, in fact you can show contempt for the people, but we can not show to foods. 
Do not you feel contempt even for objects or odors. 
Feeling a bad smell   is disgusted, but not contempt; maybe contempt is bound towards who has a bad smell, but never against a smell in particular. 
Contempt is shown when you are faced with situations deemed immoral   and feels a sense of superiority over those who have committed the action. 
it can show disdain when someone gives us advice or make us a proposal that we do not like, especially if the person in question is considered less from us. 
it appears only in the lower part of the face where the mouth on one side it tends toward the outside with the upward angle, this lip movement can be very fast, it appears and disappears very quickly. 
There are 3 types of expression of contempt: from the side. Representative mockery. attenuated version. the version side is made ​​with the lips slightly tightened and lifted a corner of his mouth. the mockery version is realized as the side version described above, with the addition of a hint of a grin. the diluted version is realized with an upper lip side just raised, almost imperceptible. Some videos for practice:

To know more:

Paul Ekman Faces of Lies The clues of deception in relationships interpesonali Editions joints € 7.9

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Paul Ekman Lies Boys Fibs, cheating, bluster: because our children resort to lies? Editions joints € 9.5

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Paul Ekman Down the Mask How to recognize emotions from the expression of the face Editions joints € 14.5

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Paul Ekman The Seduction of Lies Renzo Publisher € 12.5

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Paul Ekman I'll read in Face new version Amrita € 20

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Thubten Chodron Work on Anger Considered by some as a necessary and beneficial reaction, almost a protective biological response, anger is an emotion as opposed extremely devastating, which distorts the perception of reality and prevents a clear assessment of the facts. Astrolabe Ubaldini Edizioni € 13.5

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Harriet Lerner The Dance of Anger To transform the destructive force of rabies in vital energy Tea books € 9.5

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Daniel L. Davis Anger in Children A guide for parents Armando Editore € 10

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Deborah M. Plummer Expressing Anger Exercises and activities to positively manage anger and aggression Erickson € 18.5

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Dawn Huebner You also Explode of Anger? to awake kinds Guide Erickson € 9.9

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Albert Ellis ,  Raymond Chip Tafrate That anger! How to control it before she controls you Erickson € 16

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Dr. Carter Less Transforming Anger Amrita € 17

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